Friday, February 15, 2008

Fear



When a being carries a fear, he/she tries to improves on his/her weaknesses.When a being carries no fear, he/she tries to build on his strengths.I want to get rid of my fears. The fears which makes me to underperform many a times.The key to performance is mostly playing fully to one's strengths. So fears are your obstacles which stops you from reaching to your full potential. Keeping fears away takes more than just a short thinking. It need a continuous reminder to the self about breathing full & enjoying the freedom of thoughts.For those moments, if u can catch-up with your strenghts, you will easily know what you are capable of.

Sometimes, while thinking about some dreadful issue at work place, if we come across an idea, which could give us a lead against our fears, we march with confidence, as if we have no fear left. But isn't this is an example of local fear ? I am talking about a fear which is prevailing in ourselves. A fear from unseen, a fear from unrecognizable. Thats the nature of the grand fear, which tells us that we are limited. And this thought kills our progress. Some of us who are smarter, they know how to manipulate ourselves. They are disciplined, hard working and they seem to have achieved success. If you are one of them, don't you have any fears ? Haven't your brain progressed towards evaluating a situation before coming to a conclusion ?, My point is......don't you realise that unless you get enough evidence that you can succeed, you are negative. That is the fear i am knocking about. (You might call it negative thinking / pessimism or whatever ...... but everyone has it, only the degree matters). And to one's surprise, it alone holds one's key to success..

Conviction is said to be the key to success. If you too think so, consider the following analogy.... If fearlessness is equal to a German engineered BMW engine with no flaws, then conviction is a repairing tool for a flawed car engine. Both engines can make you reach to a set destination. But while BMW shall make you a smooth sail with enjoyment, Repaired engine need to be handled with care and if disturned once, it can give you enough pains...


Ever seen a child ?.....Thats is the real human nature. Expansion of possibilities. Arrival of positive before negative is the essence of happiness and which reflects an absence of fear....

My personal encounter with this contrast happened when i exercised 'Art of Living' for few months. Everyday became better..... Possiby it has happened because the exercises enlarges lungs and increases blood flow in brain and thereby causing better concentration levels. Whether it is physical, or spiritual or anything which you might conclude.... I see that unless we overcome our fears, we shall not utilise ourselves completely..

You, Me and Everyone around has capabilities to reach to any thinkable extent, provided we can eliminate fear from within. I find this one quite true......
"If fear alters behavior, you're already defeated.” --Brenda Hammond

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